Friday, February 29, 2008

An evening's conversation...

Liam and Finn have been known to be tucked into bed only to reappear in the den, out of bed, with a variety of things to say. Most of the time it's "I have to tell you something" or "Finn's not letting me sleep" or better yet "Liam woke me up". This can get pretty tiresome, as the boys have to be tucked in several times each evening. Last night, I decided to nip that in the bud and stand outside their door to redirect them immediately back to bed. After closing the door I heard the following:

Finn: "Liam, I love you."
Liam: "I love you to." Liam then lets out a big, tired groan.

Pause

Finn: "Liam, are you dead?"
Liam: "No, I'm just tired."

Those wacky boys...

Monday, February 25, 2008

A Finn conversation

Today was a big day for all of my boys. It is reading week at their school, and Matt agreed to come in and read to each of their classes. Then we remembered it was Liam's turn to be "host" at his Encore program that afternoon, so not only did we need to bring snack, but Matt was once again on the hook to read to the class.

So, I made blueberry muffins for snack, and when Finn came home he saw the extras sitting on the counter. Naturally I had made them vegan for Finn, but he had some questions:

Finn: What are those?
Me: Muffins.
Finn: Are they chocolate? (a child after my own heart!)
Me: No, they're blueberry.
Finn: (not listening to the answer beyond "no") What are they?
Me: (cooking dinner, only 1/2 paying attention) They're blueberries.
Finn: Am I allergic?
Me: No . . . (sensing the direction this is taking)
Finn: Can I have one?
Me: Yes, after dinner.
Finn: No!! I want one!!! (dissolves into tears and throws himself on the couch)

Later he will tell me that he hates me. Perhaps I will not make muffins again. I thought it was a pretty good line of questioning for a 2.5 year old, though!

Monday, February 18, 2008

Day 8 February 16. Sulphur Springs, TX to Nashville, TN

Matt slept with Liam head-butting him all night and asserting his territory, while I slept with Finn adherent to my body and attempting to snuggle with his head either on top of mine or pressing into my back all night. We were definitely ready to be home in a more appropriate sleeping situation. As usual, the boys enjoyed the hotel breakfast, and it will likely be one aspect of the trip they’ll miss. No more fruit loops for a while!
Once on the road again, Liam declared that he would never go on another road trip. And I thought this was going so well!!
We listened to music (Finn can now identify Bob Dylan), played with new transformers (a bribe for the last day of driving) and mostly argued about transformers. Overall, the boys were pretty good. Lunch lasted forever, and included much frustration over eating, restrooms, and behavior. Did I mention how overtired the boys are at this point?
Another nap followed lunch, and by late afternoon, we once again caved into the power of DVDs. The boys happily, and quietly, watched Cars until we rolled into Nashville, ate dinner at home, and went to bed.
We were able to visit with a lot of people who are important to us, and the boys got to play in various parts of Texas. Overall, a good trip, but one we probably won’t repeat in the near future!

Day 7. February 15. Austin, TX to Sulphur Springs, TX.

We had a pokey morning, and went to the playground for more boy time. Unfortunately, Finn had a major pants blow-out and we had to leave, at which point it became rather obvious that our boys were incredibly tired and emotionally fragile. The end of the trip was definitely in sight. Our final hurrah was going out to lunch at Phil’s, which had fabulous burgers and a great playground for the boys. I wish we had one in Nashville. Anyone want to open a franchise here?
When it was time to go, there were lots of tears. Liam would very much like to move into Andy’s house. They fell asleep quickly in the car, though, and slept until we stopped for dinner in Dallas. Finn really enjoys corn on the cob, and I can think of little that is more entertaining than watching him attack it.
On to Sulphur Springs, which has a surprisingly nice Holiday Inn Express. I’m sure there was conversation, but boy were we all tired. Another late night before one more day on the road.

Day 6: February 14. San Antonio to Austin, TX

After a late night, the boys slept in a bit, Finn especially. Liam once again relished the hotel breakfast buffet, sampling a blueberry muffin, fruit loops, eggs, bacon, 2 cups of milk, and some hot chocolate. I think he’s feeling better.
This morning we are going to the zoo and to ride the train, and then off to Austin to see Heather, Dave, Andy, and Ethan.
The boys enjoyed the train ride a lot, and really liked all of the animals at the zoo, especially the ones we don’t have in the Nashville zoo. Finn decided that an area of Africa Live! Was our cage, and we needed to stay there. There were eggs in one cornder of our “cage” and both boys decided they needed to sit on them. Liam also showed a surprising interest in snakes, saying that he was scared of them, but they interested him. They also enjoyed the lion, bears, kangaroos, komodo dragons, and the baby gibbon. The baby gibbon was a big hit with us because it kept sneaking out of its cage and swinging on the outside. It was all arms and legs, and impossibly cute.
After the zoo, we drove to Austin, with naps on the way, and arrived at “Andy’s house”. The boys were so happy to be at a house with such fabulous toys. Matt and I also really enjoyed the legos. The boys tied the plasma cars together and dragged each other all over the house. They also played dress us and spied around the house. Going to bed was not entirely successful, but eventually they all went to sleep. We had a chance to visit, too, and thoroughly enjoyed watching all of the boys together.

Day 5: February 13. Houston to San Antonio, TX

We had a bit of a slow morning and headed over to the Costellos to visit one last time before we headed out. The boys had a great time, with Liam and Jamie playing “stuck in the chocolate” with the pillows downstairs, and hiding in Jamie’s bed together waiting to be discovered. Finn and Connor had more of an independent play experience, and the grown-up got to visit, too.
Finally, it was time to go. The boys had some sandwiches on the road, and Finn took a good two hour nap. Liam rested nicely, and we got into San Antonio around 3pm. After picking up swim trunks for Matt and a little to eat, we all took a swim together at the hotel. Liam is scared silly of getting in too deep, but Finn actually did a little better this time. They both enjoyed “swimming” with me and playing sharks, until Matt got in, and then wanted nothing to do with me.
After cleaning up we went out to see Clint, Kelly, Sabryn, and Shea. The kids didn’t really remember each other, which was sad, but soon they didn’t want to be separated. We ended up going out to dinner kind of late, but the boys behaved amazingly well, and the grown-ups got to talk and visit. We ate some really good Tex-Mex, and then headed back to the hotel.
When we got back, Matt put the boys to bed, and my friend Beth and her boyfriend Bill came over to visit. We hadn’t seen each other in so long, and it was really nice to get the chance to catch up while the boys slept.
Once again, we managed to fit a lot into one day!

Day 4: February 12. Houston, TX

This morning we picked up Liam at the Costellos and lamented the inadequate room in our car for Jamie’s carseat. If only we had a big gas guzzling SUV! Of course, then we probably couldn’t have afforded this trip. Uncle Leo took Nana off to the airport, and we set off for the Children’s Museum.
The boys were so excited by all of the exhibits at the museum. This was not, however, a place to be with a headache, and it was crawling with school groups. We did pretty well, though, and managed to see a lot. Liam learned how to use the camera, and took some pretty good pictures! My favorite part was building vehicles with Baufix in the inventor’s workshop. The boys enjoyed the periscopes, cow milking, magnet experiments, and most especially, the bus and car to play in. You’d think they would have had enough time in the car already . . .
By lunchtime it was pouring rain, so we brought in our picnic and tried to wait it out. After lunch it was still drizzling and we debated naps versus butterflies. Butterflies seemed the way to go, and we headed over to the science museum. We apparently has perfect timing, as the exhibit halls are free on Tuesday afternoon starting at 2pm, so we paid $6 to see the butterfly exhibit, and then headed over to the exhibit hall. By this time, Liam was feeling sick, but we perked him up with advil and kept going, because, y’know, it was free. The boys both really enjoyed the dinosaur skeletons and Matt liked the gem and mineral exhibit. They even got to search for real fossils together. Finn handled the forceps pretty durn well!
After a little while at the museum, we faced facts and went back for short naps. Liam was the only one who was successful because Finn fell asleep in the car, but hopefully it will be enough to get us through tonight’s dinner.
We ate dinner at Barnaby’s, and the boys got giant hotdogs that they each ate only about a quarter of—I’d forgotten how big the portions are! Finn and Alden got along very well, smiling and laughing at each other while they ate. Finn even regressed to baby talk for the occasion, unfortunately. It was great to visit with Mary-Helen, Ellis, Phil and Melissa again, and it’s hard to believe it will be a long time until we get the chance again. On the way home, Finn resumed talking, non-stop, asking, “Why are we not in Melissa’s car? “ and pretending to have conversations with baby Alden. Very sweet. Then they resumed space shuttle play, with Liam telling Finn he’d melt his “firepipes”. Then, after eating very little dinner, Finn announced in the car, “I’m hungry!” They really know how to drive us crazy. Finn was obviously tired, though, and turned his unpleasantness way up when we got back to the hotel. We finally have teeth brushed, pyjamas on (except Liam, whose pyjamas I forgot to pack—oops!), and are reading books. I hope tonight everyone sleeps well, because I’m really tired from getting kicked all night by Finn the last two nights.